Sincere people attract abusive people, parasites.
Selflessness will kill them
No abusers cares

Doesn't start passion with interest?
Without interest or curiosity no passion can be born.

The suffocating masks are asked by society, culture, religion, family, work.
If you sincere refuse you are kicked out.
Life the life of a woman in your country for a few years and give up on your benefits and the masks she has to wear.

Desire will be satisfied with the right attitude and the right person's, the only question is how to avoid falshood, the mean, envious parasites.