There are many ways to pretend but those ways do cost money, at least it does with us and the railings just like killings increase. One out 4 girls/women is killed... The rape number is even higher.
It's better not to judge. The trash isn't okay, but it would have been good if my mother would have never had children or gave me away or dumped me with the trash.
I only heard a few years ago one krr two hospitals in Germany had a "dump station" for babies. The idea was to leave them there instead of in dark alley or with the trash. I assume that the fact the hospital started this says enough. No idea if it still exists.

I don't believe it is wise to bring new life into this world. In many countries women refuse. I understand very well why.