Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 141: Friendship Palava

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Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.💜💜
From Pakistan🇵🇰.

“Do you think it's wise to have just one best friend like someone has one wife? Explain.”

I would like to shed some light on my opinion here. Now I would like to clarify this.What is being discussed here is that there are two different things, one is about having a wife and the other is about having many friends. In my opinion, these are two different things. Your relationship with your wife is based on honesty, and if you have a second wife, that is called cheating. But when you talk about friends, if you have a friend now and if you have another friend, it does not mean that you are cheating with the first friend.

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So I think it is not necessary that you should have only one friend and if you have another friend then you are being dishonest with him. That is not the case at all. People need to know you and you also need to know people. Your circle always keeps you happy. If you have three to four friends, then I say that you form a group. All three people talk differently and whatever your heart is, it becomes quite happy sitting among such people because we are deeply connected to the problems of our day and when we hear the problems of others, our own problems sometimes seem very small.

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“If you have a best friend and your best friend has another friend whom he/she spends most of the time with, will you be jealous and discontinue? Explain.”

I don't have a jealous nature towards people. I love loving people very much. I always meet people I like gathering and I always prefer the same thing. Here I want to talk about feelings. The important thing is that if I have a friend and then he also has a friend, I will not be jealous of him at all. Rather, I will tell him to call him too. If we are going out, then take him too so that the three of us can maintain a better friendship. If two of us keep talking, then one speaks and the other listens, so its boring then there should be a third one so that we can have alot of fun.

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“Should a married man or woman end their friendships with people of the opposite sex after marriage? Give reasons for your answer.”

It's not that you should end your friendship, but if your friendship is not physical or sexual, then there is no problem in maintaining friendship. But I have seen that the relationship between a husband and wife is quite pure and they are also friends, partners, soul mates, and husband and wife. I would say that they are everything to each other, so this couple should not need any other friends.

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If you are not seeing your best friend in your partner, then I think there is still something missing in your relationship. It should not just be love, but your partner should be your best friend. I think such things create problems in a relationship, such as when we think that our opposite is like, "I would like to talk about myself. If I am a married woman and I have a male friends and we gossip every time and am not give proper time to my husband. then my husband will have a problem with it. Not because we will meet each other as secretaries or our relationship will be very pure, but because I will create problems for myself by making him feel jealous. Sometimes, when some people feel jealous, they completely lose interest.

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“Will you end a friendship if your friend keeps on making mistakes or doing things you don't like?.”

I will try not to break the friendship with him because I want him to give me the same honesty and efforts that I have given to the person in front of me. But if he keeps making mistakes, he will dig a place for himself in my heart somewhere. I am not saying that I will break the friendship, but then he will not give him the same place in my heart as before and then things will get worse between us. So I will try my best to make him understand. Yes, the most I can do is to maintain a good friendship with him, even if it is at a short distance. But when I see that things are harming me, I will definitely cut him off from my life.

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“What Is your advice to people with many friends?.”

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I'll just say that having a lot of friends is not a bad thing at all. The bigger your circle, the more opportunities you'll have to laugh or have picnics or play games. So I think you just need to manage your friendships.
You just have to be careful that my environment is not too much with one person and not too little with another. You just have to manage everyone and whenever you have to plan something, remember that it is very important to invite every person in your group and putting anyone down cannot be part of your friendship.

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