The April contest #2 by sduttaskitchen: Situationship!

To me infatuation is actually a state that looks like a complete relationship on the outside. But on the inside it is not as strong as a true and clear relationship should be. In it two people spend time with each other. Become each other's habits. Become part of each other's day. But despite all this they hesitate to give this relationship a name. This is what puts it in a strange confusion. Because when a relationship is not clear. A person himself does not understand his place.

Sometimes he feels that he is special in that person's life. And sometimes he feels like he is just a temporary support. This type of relationship gives a person temporary happiness. But also creates a permanent anxiety inside him. This is why I consider it not a complete relationship but an incomplete state.

🔹Second point: Reasons why people get involved in a relationship🔹

If we think about it one of the main reasons why people are so afraid of commitment. Today is that people want love. But they want to avoid the responsibilities that come with it. They want to connect with someone. But not to the point where they have to be responsible. Some people also do this. Because of their past experiences. Bbecause they have seen pain in a relationship before. So they do not want the same pain again. So they take a middle path where they are with someone. But not completely. Apart from this the excess of options in today's era is also a major reason. When a person has many choices instead of stopping at one. He is always looking for the best. And this thinking brings him into relationships like a relationship.

🔹Third point: Emotional effects of a relationship🔹

I think the biggest effect of a relationship is on a person's emotions. Because when a relationship is not clear. A person always lives in an uncertainty. He does not know what his future holds. Or how important he is to that person. If one person becomes more serious and the other is not. Then this imbalance causes a lot of pain. A person starts to feel less important. His self confidence is affected. And he starts to question himself. Also when this relationship ends his pain does not decrease. But sometimes it is more than in a proper relationship. Because a person does not get closure. This is why I think that true love seems easy at the moment. But in reality it weakens a person from the inside.

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🔹First point: The changing reality of relationships in the modern era🔹

If we compare today's relationships with the past. We see a clear difference. In the past, people took relationships seriously had more tolerance and patience, and ignored small things. But in today's era things have changed. Social media and technology have brought people closer. But at the same time they have also weakened relationships. Now every person has many options. And this is what prevents him from fully connecting in a relationship. People get bored quickly and quickly move on to a new relationship. This change has given rise to relationships like cohabitation. Where people like to be with each other without full commitment.

🔹Second point: Benefits of cohabitation (with details)🔹

If we look at the positive aspects of cohabitation, we have to admit that for some people it is an easy path. There is no pressure in it nor is there any big responsibility. A person is attached to someone of their own free will. And can distance themselves whenever they want. This can be especially beneficial for those. Who are not yet ready for a serious relationship. Or are going through a difficult phase in their life. In addition it provides temporary companionship which protects a person from loneliness. Sometimes people also see it as a learning phase. Where they can understand themselves and their priorities better. But these benefits are mostly temporary and lose their importance over time.

🔹Third point: Disadvantages of companionship (in depth)🔹

While it has some benefits its disadvantages are much deeper and more dangerous. The biggest problem is that there is no explanation in it. Due to which a person is always confused. In addition when a person becomes more attached. He is more hurt. Bbecause he does not get the response he expects. This also creates trust issues. And a person is not able to trust anyone easily in the future. Most importantly it wastes time. Because in the end the relationship often ends and the person is left with only memories and regrets. It also affects a person's self worth. Because they start to feel like an option instead of a priority. This is why I believe that a relationship can provide temporary comfort. But it cannot be the foundation of a happy life.

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🔹First point: The impact of relationships on a child's personality and mental development🔹

I think a child's first school is his home. And he learns the most from the behavior of his parents. If there is a healthy loving and trusting relationship between parents. It has a direct impact on the child's personality. The child feels safe there is peace within him. And he has the courage to speak his mind without any fear. When he sees that his parents respect each other. Speak gently and stand by each other. These things become part of his thinking and habits.
On the contrary if the home environment is unclear. Or the relationship between the parents is not strong. The child is always under mental pressure. He gets worried about small things. insecurity arises within him. And he feels insecure. Such a child is often unable to express his emotions properly and keeps shrinking inside. That is why I believe that a healthy relationship is fundamental to a child's mental and emotional development. Because it forms the foundation of his personality.

🔹Second point: What a healthy relationship teaches a child (practical life lessons)🔹

A strong and balanced relationship is not just an environment for a child. But a practical example. A child learns what love is. How to give respect and how to handle differences by watching his parents. If parents talk to each other well solve problems wisely. And value each other. Then the child also learns how to handle relationships in life.
Such a child grows up to be more mature. He understands and cares about the feelings of others. He has patience and does not get angry quickly. In addition he is also serious in his relationships. Because he has seen a positive example since childhood. On the contrary if a child grows up in an environment. Where relationships are unclear or change frequently he becomes confused. He does not understand what a true and strong relationship is. And this confusion is also visible in his future life. That is why I believe that a healthy relationship is the most important part of a child's upbringing.

🔹Third point: Negative effects of unclear relationships (Situationship) on a child🔹

If we talk specifically about situationship. Iit is a relationship that causes confusion even for adults. Then it can be even more harmful for a child. Because it has neither stability nor a clear direction. If a child grows up in an environment where relationships are unclear or are changing frequently. He becomes mentally confused. He does not understand what he considers right and what is wrong.
Such a child often suffers from insecurity has difficulty trusting others. and is not able to express his feelings properly. Sometimes he himself becomes inclined towards frivolous relationships when he grows up. Because that is what he has seen. In addition there is a constant fear that people will come into his life and leave. And this also weakens his self confidence.
That is why in my opinion a healthy clear and strong relationship is not only necessary for parents. But also extremely important for the bright future of the child. If we want our children to live a strong confident and happy life. Then we ourselves have to handle our relationships with seriousness and responsibility.

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I pray for you friends May you achieve your dreams and find peace. I am sure that they do not forget me in their prayers. 🥰

See you in the next post.

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